Things you should not do when you visit Rwanda : Every country has those sensitive issues one needs to be careful about. They may be simply traditions of the locals or particular laws. Rwanda too has things you should tread carefully about when you are a tourist or visitor. As you plan for your Rwanda gorilla trekking, chimpanzee trekking in Nyungwe forest national park and the big 5 game in Akagera national park or a long vacation in the land of thousand hills please take note of the following things you need to avoid. There are obviously many other laws, which are similar to other countries’ but the following are sensitive.
Avoid careless talk about the genocide
The genocide happened more than 20 years ago but for a big population of the country it still feels like it happened just yesterday. It left wounds in the minds and hearts of many Rwandans, which will take generations to heal. The genocide is a sensitive issue in Rwanda that you should not talk about careless otherwise, you risk pricking wounds that are trying to heal. If you want to ask questions or make comments do so with someone known to you and in confidence. They should also be comfortable with the subject, but if they are not, please do NOT insist on the subject. Otherwise, there are several genocide memorials and museums in the country that are open for tourists, you can visit one and ask as many questions and they will be answered. An easy one is the Kigali Genocide Memorial in the capital Kigali.
Asking one if they are Hutu or Tutsi
Asking one if they are Hutu or Tutsi is in fact a taboo in Rwanda. After the genocide against the Tutsi, the Rwandan people decided to abandon their ethnic identifications, which were a catalyst for division and eventually the genocide. The Rwandans decided to all identify each other as simply Rwandan and nothing more or less. Please desist from asking anyone if they are Hutu or Tutsi, you will cause a lot of discomfort and heartache. There are in fact anti-tribalism laws, so avoid the tribal or ethnic talk all together, Things you should not do when you visit Rwanda.
Do not liter!
Kigali city and Rwanda at large have made a name as being arguably the cleanest and tidiest city and country in Sub-Sahara Africa. Kigali is one of the cleanest cities in the world, so much that tourists from first countries are wowed by what they see upon arrival in Rwanda. This level of cleanliness has been achieved because the country decided to move towards this direction, creating a utopia of sorts given the mess that is African cities! As a tradition, every last Saturday of the month all people in Rwanda engage in communal cleaning of the areas around them. Even the president participates! Littering and engaging in acts that cause disorder are frowned upon and so the culture of cleanliness and tidiness has been built among the Rwandan people. Do not liter, urinate in random areas not toilets, walk in the lawns, etc.…
Do not bring plastic bags to Rwanda
In a bid to protect the environment, the Rwandan government burned the use of plastic bags. Please do not carry plastic bags to Rwanda; they will be confiscated at the airport or the border. If you carry any items in the plastic bag, you have to remove them and leave the plastic bag behind. A paper bag may be provided but at a cost of course.
This initiative is paying off as the capital Kigali is featuring prominently in international publication as one of the greenest cities in the world.
Photographing security installations (and government buildings)
Photographing military installations are prohibited all over the world. In Rwanda it is in fact a taboo! But this is understandable given Rwanda’s past and even the present where the country is faced with many enemies (remnants of the genocide perpetrators). The country is therefore very security conscious! Before taking any pictures in a place you are not sure about please inquire if it is okay otherwise you will be in big trouble after photographing a military or security installation, Things you should not do when you visit Rwanda.
Spit in public
Spitting was actually something that was normal for Rwandans and Rwandans were looked down on for this habitat. The leadership took the step to turn this around as one way of uplifting the dignity of the Rwandan people and burned spitting in public. The tradition of not spitting in public has now picked on and you will look awkward when you do it, similar to how the western world looks at other people who pick their nose. So avoid spitting in public, find a bush, trench or bathroom to spit.
Disrespecting/abusing Rwandan women
Rwandan women are some of the most beautiful on the continent and it is said during the time of the African Traditional Society neighboring kingdoms would invade the kingdom of Rwanda just to capture and steal their beautiful women, Things you should not do when you visit Rwanda.
If you come with the mindset of the ancient African traditional society to abuse Rwandan women you are in trouble my friend, as the Rwandan woman is one of the most empowered and protected on the African continent. Desist from ogling, molesting and speaking vulgar words to women in public. Respect the women and men too